Ever felt like the weight of the world is on your shoulders?

This is one thing that happens to me when I least expect it what about you? You feel like your on a role everything is going hunky dory your in full flow and then BAM out of nowhere something you never thought would happen happens, you've give in to temptation something external your not I control comes at you from nowhere, you loose a job, crash your car or even worst you loose someone in your life.

What I always remember when these times come is that storms are inevitable in life and there is no way in this life we can be in control of the weather all that we can be in control of is the way we choose to handle these things when they come into our life as lets face it, Shits going to happen whether we like it or not and I always find instead of being in victim mode and saying 'WHY' is this happening to me so, go into survivor mode and say 'HOW' can I learn from this situation 'WHAT' at this time can I gain from this situation because nothing happens to us in this in life that we cant handle or that we cant ultimately gain knowledge from for our growth spiritually and mentally.

The one thing too that gets me through the pressure is remembering I've been through worst before and to see yourself as a diamond as we have withstood the worst pressure that made us into the diamond we are today all thats happening now is we are being polished off so that we truly can be the best version of ourselves.

Hope this helped in anyway and as always PEACE AND LOVE MY DIAMONDS X

Talking for GOOGLE

Well......... for me this doesn't get more of a sign, in. under 12 months of quitting my job and starting my own business not only have I spoken for the biggest human rights organisation in the world, Councils and events up and down the UK, but an amazing opportunity arose when Google Digital Garage in Birmingham UK asked to have me as a guest speaker for using all their services to aid in growing my business. You can obviously guess what I said when they asked me right?

The event itself was such a great event and was named #IAMREMARKABLE and to be one of the guest speakers to a small group of entrepreneurs on that had just started their journey on behalf of google it was an amazing opportunity to inspire them and show what can happen when you follow your dreams in life. I just had to pinch myself by the end as I had realised after telling my story of my journey from quitting until that very day, so much had happened and I didn't even realise it until I put the speech together for the event.

Non the less the reason for this blog, most of all is to anyone reading this .......... hold your vision and trust the process because one thing I mentioned when I was doing my talk was that if I would have stayed in my job for an extra 5 years instead of quitting I still would have been working for someone else but if I started my dream in 5 years where would I be? And considering I was speaking for google saying this spoke volumes to me, so I hope it does for you too. That when you take that leap of faith and work on your dream everyday always trust the process and understand the possibilities are endless because you really did decide to start that journey with the right step in the right direction of becoming successful in your dream and vision.




Being you

Ok so I had to do this as my first post due to when I started my business and I was getting coached by numerous people, some very well respected coaches told me I needed to polish myself up. Now I know some people will have this in their life where they have people tell them that they should be how they expect them to be and lets face it we live in a world of labels and a world that tells us to be normal but not that way.

So I always like to share my experiences when giving anyone the best guidance I can as I'm a true believer if you haven't experienced and got over something yourself already in life then guess what you hold no boundaries whatsoever to give the advise to someone else. Being a coach I try to steer away from giving advise to clients but I'm sure you have had that friend in your life who has tried to give you relationship advise and they haven't had one successful relationship yet so subconsciously you don't listen to them.

Despite the fact that taking advise from a friend is bit different then someone of an authority figure it still has the same impact when someone makes out in your group your not being how thy want you to be or a boss or someone you look up to says you should change as your not living up to their standards, please understand this is one of my favourite quotes a strawberry never changes for anyone who doesn't like strawberries and hills compromise is important in any kind of relationship i.e work, business or love change is not as if someone can not see the value in you or hear the message you have it is not for their ears or eyes to listen or see and you and me both can sniff a fake person a mile away.

The moral of my story and most of all the meaning of this message is to make you realise that for one over peoples problem with you is non of your business and two as Sonya Parker says 'Live your life for you not for anyone else, don't let the fear of being judged rejected or disliked stop you form being you'. 

Peace x